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concerned Member Posts: 60 |
posted 01-29-2004 07:00 PM
I've had Amber for 15 1/2 years now...last year she was diagnosed with kidney failure and borderline diabetes. I never thought that she'd live this long but she is still alive. She has gone down hill and is thin. She is vomiting more and has started urinating and b.m.ing in places other than her litter box. How do you know when it is time to let her go? I keep wishing she would just pass peacefully in her sleep one night but know that this disease she has is a lingering one. I hate the thought of having the put her to sleep...it's a hard thing to have to kill something you love so much. Has anyone gone through this with their cat and if so any advice. IP: Logged |
cacey Member Posts: 32 |
posted 01-29-2004 10:31 PM
I'm so sorry that is so sad. I lost 2 cats to FIP and the 1st one I couldn't bare the thought of letting him go, and when I look back now I should have, he was filling with fluid and swelling and couldn't fit in the litter box anymore.....I should've put him to sleep, of course he passed not long after getting that bad. And my second one I did finally get the courage to let my father take him to be put to sleep when he started getting really bad. It's never easy, maybe someone close to you could take her in if it comes to that point. And look how lucky you are, you got so much time with her......15 yrs, I've never had a pet that long, I hope to someday. Just use your best judgment on when it's time, if she is going outside of her litter box alot she's probably in pain and associating the pain of using the bathroom with her litter box?? Is she hiding alot? Ask a friend who sees her what they think. IP: Logged |
dolly Member Posts: 84 |
posted 01-30-2004 09:50 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about your kitty. 4 months ago I had to say goodbye to my beloved Spooky, who was the light of my life. He had FIV and was suffering. Saying goodbye was the hardest thing I have ever had to do but it was best for him and with time it does get easier to bear--at the time I thought I would die from a broken heart. Know that you aren't alone. I found that 'talking' (typing) to people who have gone through a similar experience helped. I also spoke to a grief councellor. IP: Logged |
Yahdah Member Posts: 75 |
posted 01-30-2004 05:51 PM
If it should be, that I grow frail and weak, And pain should keep me from my sleep, Then, you must do what must be done For this, the last battle, can't be won. You will be sad, I understand We've had so many happy years, Take me where my needs they'll tend, I know, in time you will see, Don't grieve it should be you, Smile, for we walked together, (Author unknown) IP: Logged |
concerned Member Posts: 60 |
posted 01-31-2004 12:27 PM
Thank you all for your support...you are all wonderful people! IP: Logged |
jocelin New Member Posts: 3 |
posted 01-31-2004 09:25 PM
i once let my can go when he had a terrible bladder problem that he cannot pee at all. i know it's a really sad thing to let your cat go. but would you rather see him suffer all the time? i couldn't. because after i let him go, at least i know he's rest peacefully in heaven rather then suffering from the illness. IP: Logged |
concerned Member Posts: 60 |
posted 02-01-2004 09:48 AM
I agree and I know her time is coming soon. When I feel she is not enjoying life anymore I will put her to sleep. IP: Logged |
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