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EskieLover00
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posted 03-03-2004 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EskieLover00     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, I'm only 13 years old and I have wanted a dog for as long as I can remember. Now we have finally got our chance!!! I was so excited to get a little male puppy, but then we found out that the mother only had one puppy!!! It turns out, it is a female..... now I have heard that males are better for a family with mostly girls(which is what we are). What do you think?.....is it better wait..(once again)to have a male? or can females be just as loving and affectionate????

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Jamiya
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posted 03-03-2004 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamiya     Edit/Delete Message
I think it depends more on the specific dog than on whether it is a male or female. Meet the pup, see what the parents are like, and make your decision based on that.


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honeybear
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posted 03-03-2004 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for honeybear     Edit/Delete Message
Welcome! I dont think that is true, but what kind of dog are you looking at? YTou want to make sure you love the dog just as would any other

I was the reverse - I really wanted a female lab and the place didnt have a female so we got Jake a male and I just love him to death.

AndI have a female mix that is just a luvbug
so hopefully someone else can give some insight - but please do tell what kind of pup you are looking
at
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EskieLover00
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posted 03-03-2004 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EskieLover00     Edit/Delete Message
We are looking at an American Eskimo. We've been looking around at breeders and all of that stuff for quite a while now and we I know some people with American Eskimos. They are sooo adorable and I love them to death. We are sure this is the kind of dog we want, however we aren't very experienced because this is our first dog. So we have just been reading about the differences between males and females on the internet and all web pages say different things. I think that we will be very happy with a female pup, but I was just a little worried that we would want to wait for a male. I think that you are right though, it does depend on the personality.

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honeybear
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posted 03-03-2004 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for honeybear     Edit/Delete Message
I thought so by your name - There a a few people here that have huskies - same thing right? hopefully they can help. Also they certainly can give tons of good advice on raising one. Just put in your message "need help from husky owners" I agree with Jimiya - the personality is what you are looking at, does the pup have the type of personality you are looking for? I say if she has the great disposition then why not!
and here is some good info I found for you read hope it helps


Male or female
First, decide whether a male or female suits you best. Females tend to be smaller than males, to wander less, and to be less dominant. Whichever you choose, determine that, unless you are buying a breeding animal, your pet will be spayed or neutered at six months of age. Spayed females cannot get pregnant, so there'll be no accidental litters. They also cannot get mammary or uterine cancer or pyometra, an infection of the uterus.

Castration reduces the male's tendency to wander in search of females in heat, his need to mark every corner of his territory, and his penchant for aggression and dominance. It also eliminates the chances of testicular cancer.


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Temperament: Dominant or submissive
Next, decide if a quiet puppy, a submissive one, or a dominant one is more to your liking. Even though temperament, size, and level of activity is constant within a breed, there is plenty of room for individual differences. Akitas are large, dominant dogs, often aloof and difficult to train, yet an individual Akita puppy can be more or less friendly; close to the maximum (27 inches for males, 25 inches for females) or minimum (25 inches for males, 23 inches for females) size; more or less energetic; more or less dominant. The same is true of any breed, for all individuals in a breed are not clones of each other.

Check out the puppies
Sit or kneel on the ground and call the puppy to you. Snap fingers, pat the ground, get the puppy's attention. If he comes quickly, he may have a strong attachment to people. If he stops to smell the flowers along the way, he may have an independent streak. If he doesn't come at all, he may have difficulty forming a bond with people. Of course, one such test means nothing. Try to visit the litter a couple of times before making a decision. Or depend on the breeder to tell you which puppies seem to have which behavior characteristics. Or both.

The homecoming
Taking him from his littermates and introducing him to a new home with new smells, sights, and sounds can be overwhelming for an eight-week-old pup, so take steps to assure an easy transition.

Make sure the pup has a spot to call his own, someplace he can go where he will not be pestered by children, other pets, or visitors. This can be a crate, a purchased dog bed, or a blanket in the corner. The crate for a puppy should be a small one; an adult size crate can be purchased when he outgrows the puppy crate.

Bring a blanket or towel from his first home and put it in his place along with a blanket or towel from your own supply. Dogs have a strong sense of smell; familiar smells will help him feel more comfortable. Feed the same food that the breeder did, or mix some of that brand in with the food you prefer to gradually accustom the pup's system to the new diet.

Confine the pup to a room occupied by an adult so you have a better chance of preventing mischief and of catching him before he relieves himself on the floor. If you are distracted, leave the pup in his crate for short periods while you work. If he is confined, your

relationship stands a good chance of getting off to a fine start - he can't soil the floor, chew the furniture, or bite baby's ankles if he is in the crate, so won't start his life in your family being scolded.

Place a crate in the bedroom of the person who is responsible for taking the pup out during the night if he has to relieve himself.

Proximity to people will help him adjust better to being without his littermates, and immediate attention to his toilet needs will make housetraining easier.


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Otherwise stay at home
Plan on keeping Rover at home (except for visits to the vet and short trips to accustom him to riding in the car) until he is at least 12 weeks old and preferably until he's 16 weeks old. Puppies get their initial immunity to disease from their mother. As the pup grows, he is vaccinated for continued protection from several potentially fatal viruses and bacterial infections. However, there is usually a gap in protection as mother's immunity decreases and administered immunity increases to a safe level.

Pups can pick up bacteria or viruses from other dogs on a walk in the park or a visit to puppy kindergarten class or to a friend's house. Diseases can be transmitted through dog urine and feces, so a pup coming into contact with one or the other can become infected. People can bring germs home on their shoes and clothing, so beware of visiting a friend whose dog has had any of the canine infectious diseases. Enjoy the puppy. Guide him or trick him into correct behavior until it becomes habit. Play with him to help develop his confidence. But most of all, enjoy the puppy. That's what you got him for.


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EskieLover00
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posted 03-03-2004 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EskieLover00     Edit/Delete Message
Well, according to the name American Eskimos they seem like they would be like a Husky, but they are smaller, have more fur, and are all white. As far as agility and obedience, i am not sure how similar they are.
Thanks for all of the information on how to care for the puppy. I will try the test you suggested when I meet the puppy, it sounds worth while. I have heard of other tests too...like holding the puppy on its back so that it looks at you and if it does not whiggle for a while then starts to squirm then it is going to be playful but obedient...if it just sits there and does nothing then it will be a lazy dog, and if it squirms from the start it will be very playful. What do you think? does this sound like a fairly accurate test? We will be sure to go see the puppy a few times before we take it home so we can be used to it though.

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susan_cude@hotmail.com
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posted 03-03-2004 11:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for susan_cude@hotmail.com     Edit/Delete Message
Honeybear, that was great! what you did for her.

Eskielover, we want to see pics when you get him or her....Good luck to you!

Susan

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honeybear
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posted 03-04-2004 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for honeybear     Edit/Delete Message
you want if ti be playful, so I think putting the pup on its back to see what she does, hopefully just squirm, but if she loves her belly rubbed, it still not a sign of submission, tht is one one thing ou want to look for
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EskieLover00
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posted 03-04-2004 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EskieLover00     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for everything! I'll be sure to post a picture when I get the puppy in 9 weeks!

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Nik
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posted 03-04-2004 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
Hi,
I got my first dog for my 13th birthday, my mum got talked into getting her for me after years of me begging.
She was a collie - terrier cross and absolutly beautiful. We were an all female household, mum, 2 sisters (and one brother who was never around anyway) and she loved us all.
Now I have a male and I can notice the difference.
It's obviously breed and temprement along with how you treat them in their early days but training her was so easy compared to training Floob (new boy pup).
A few people I've met whilst out walking him have said how females are alot easier work and much more loyal than males. I'm not saying they are, just repeating what others have said.

You sound very responsible and putting alot of thought into it so I'm sure whichever you decide on will be right for you.

Come show him/her off when you get them

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EskieLover00
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posted 03-04-2004 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EskieLover00     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for the info!! Me and my 3 other sisters had to convince my mom and dad to get a puppy too. At first they didn't want one but now they are a little more excited. The thing is though, that they want me, and my sisters (2 older, 1 younger) to take care of it. So it is good to hear that it could be a pleasant experience. We are so excited!! My younger sister and I can hardly fall asleep at night!!!!!!

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Nik
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posted 03-05-2004 02:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
Hi
That's great that you've decided to get her!
I was the only one who looked after my girl, and I liked it that way. I paid for her food out of my pocket money each week, woke up early for school so I could take her out for a walk, ran in from school to take her out again and then again before I went to bed. The novelty never wore off and I loved every minute.
If you're 'doggy-minded' you'll get so much out of your new pup, as much as when she's an adult and then an old lady. Walking a dog is a calming experience, and very enjoyable. It also gives you time alone to think... and to not think. Mine helped me through alot as a teenager as we snuggled up whilst she listened to every word I said. Oh yeah, that's another thing, they're great listeners and never throw an opinion back at you

Don't forget to keep us posted on how things are going... and don't be scared to ask for advice nomatter how silly it might seem

Nik.

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EskieLover00
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posted 03-05-2004 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EskieLover00     Edit/Delete Message
Nik- Thanks alot! My mom keeps telling us that the excitement will wear off and that we have to make sure we will still want to take care of her. But I love dogs so much that im sure i will always do whatever i need to do. I appreciate what you say because it seems that you had a very similar situation to what I am in!! I'll be sure to post some info when the pup comes home in 8 weeks!

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Kathy74
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posted 03-07-2004 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kathy74     Edit/Delete Message
Lots of families do have the novelty of a pup wear off, then taking care of him/her is a chore, but you sound very mature for your age. You've done your research, not just "picked" a pup cuz it was cute. We have 2 females, and have had good luck with them. We are looking at adopting a 3rd and a male would not be out of the question, depending on personality. They can fill your home with so much joy and love! Have you guys discussed who the dog will live with when you and your sisters graduate and start moving out of the home?

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EskieLover00
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posted 03-07-2004 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EskieLover00     Edit/Delete Message
My parents will be keeping the dog after we move out. Although they expect us to do the cleaning and training, they are also looking forward to having this dog. The only reason why they were hesitant at first is because they didn't want to get this dog that we have been asking for, then have to do all the work for us. However, they will not mind taking care of this dog once it is older and a true part of our family I am sure....and I think that they will fall in love with her also!!! I am hoping all goes well!!

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posted 03-07-2004 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kathy74     Edit/Delete Message
That's great that you discussed it! I asked b/c when my sister and I were teens, my parents agreed that we could get a pup, but my sister had the bright idea that she would be taking it with her when she moved out (she was older by 6 yrs and moving out the next year)! It sounds like your dog will be very lucky and loved by all.

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