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Nik
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posted 11-05-2003 06:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
Hello, I have a new border collie pup who's totally adorable. I've only had him 4 days and he's settled right in. We play all the time, his housetraining's alomst there and he's getting better with his howling when I leave him (I've been going out for an hour exactly with a strict routein 'goodbye' so he knows what's happening)
My problem is that I have 2 cats, 1 male & 1 female. The female stays in all of the time so up till now the whole house has belonged to her. The male goes out at night and if he stays in during the day he's usually under the bad anyway. They both love fuss and always spend the evenings sitting with me on the sofa if I'm home.
I decided to use a stair gate to section off the front room & kitchen to the hallway and bedroom. This way the cats would have the confidence of sleeping in the bedroom and still be able to get to their food & litter which is in the hallway.
The thing is that every time a cat dares to leave the bedroom Floob (new puppy) notices them and barks, they dart straight back into the bedroom and won't be tempted out. The female hasn't eaten, drank or been out of the bedroom in 3 days now and I'm so worried.
Has anyone else used this stairgate at the door method who could help me with where to go from here?
I know to correct him for barking at them but I'm not even getting the chance to now as they run the second he starts.
Help

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Jamiya
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posted 11-05-2003 06:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamiya     Edit/Delete Message
I have a (probably) border collie mix puppy who is about 5-6 months old now. We got her about 2 months ago. We have a gate between the family room and the kitchen, so she has to stay in the family room. The stairs down to the finished basement are off of the family room, but she never goes down the stairs. We have 2 indoor cats. Their food and litter is in the basement.

Nala, our puppy, wants very badly to sniff the cats and play with them. The cats do not like this. They totally avoided her for the first few days. Then they started to come into the room, but would always stay up high.

Even after two months of trying, I can't get Nala to stop chasing them. They have to dart through her room to get to the basement. One jumps the gate, and the other squishes through the bars (she is an oddball). I have a card table out in the family room so when they do come in to stay, they can lie up there.

When Nala is tired, she doesn't chase them (sometimes).

One of the things people suggest when introducing a new animal is to put the newcomer in a crate or closed room and let the resident animals sniff it through the crate or under the door. Then slowly progress to face to face meetings, but don't force anything. Let the animals go at their own pace.

I'm not sure what to suggest in your situation, except perhaps move the food and water and maybe the litterbox into the bedroom for now, so the cats can eat without going out. Maybe start to put them closer to the bedroom door and then inch them out into the hallway until they are back where they started. Do this slowly - over the period of a week or two. Correct your pup for barking at them.

It is really challenging with a herding dog and cats. I am still searching for a solution.


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Nik
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posted 11-05-2003 06:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks
Putting their food in the bedroom was something I was contemplating and have gone to do it a few times but wasn't sure if it'd be harder in the long run.
I'm gonna do that right now tho as hearing someone else suggest it makes me feel more confident about it.

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jeminn
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posted 11-05-2003 06:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jeminn     Edit/Delete Message
I knew Jamiya would jump on this post (lol)
Nik- like Jamiya says, it takes time and patience and make sure your cats feel safe and out of harms way when your pup is out and about. I would tether your pup to you and let your cats come out on their own terms when you are working with socializing them together, but as Jamiya said- herding breeds can be a challenge when it comes to living with cats. Take it slow, and reinforce the positive interaction, give them both space and time to settle into this adjustment. I have an aussie that is 7 months old and two cats- one that doesn't mind the aussie and the other who would have rather the dog never moved in- teaching your pup a "leave it" command may help, and basic obedience will too. I did keep Jules (my aussie) in a crate in the middle of the room for short periods so the cats could sniff on their own terms. Then I kept her on a leash inside tethered to me so I could correct and teach her not to chase the cats. After a few days of this, I let her get close enough to the cats for a good swat on the nose (my cats have their claws)..one cat allowed Jules to lick and sniff, the other cat hissed and swatted at her and Jules kind of knew her boundaries, reinforced with the "leave it" commmand and my tethering, this helped get her chasing drives under control and understand that these creatures were NOT prey, they were part of the family. I did not allow her to torment or chase them all over the place. If she did, and did not listen to my commands, in the kennel she went for a time out and to let the cats have freedom. It has all worked out- but she would still dearly love to get a hold of our one cat- they seem to have figured out how to deal with it though and the cat can definetely put Jules in her place when he wants to.
Good luck- it can be such a challenge, as Jamiya well knows!

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Jamiya
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posted 11-05-2003 06:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamiya     Edit/Delete Message
How long of a time out did you use, Jeminn?

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Nik
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posted 11-05-2003 07:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
Jeminn - Thanks, when you say to keep him on a leash and let them come to investigate him, do you mean for a log period of time? I tried sitting with him for a while but with the cats not leaving the bedroom it seemed fruitless.
I'm tackling this alone and just feel at this point that when everyone warned me not to get a dog with the cats they were right.
I've wanted another dog for 6 years since my first one passed away but resisted.
I'm trying to stay possative it's just hard sometimes when all you want to do is sit & cry.

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posted 11-05-2003 07:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jeminn     Edit/Delete Message
Jamiya--Not long- 5 to 10 minutes maybe..if she whined or barked, then longer. I only let her out when she had quieted down. When she cried, I just closed the door and went about my business. The minute she was quiet, I went in and let her out, (no treats, though) again I tethered her to me so she could not chase or go flying down the hallway ready for round two. She learned to stay focused on me, and what I wanted because I was the one giving her the praise, rewards as well as her "time outs"- she is now a dog that watches my every move, and maybe it was because of this type of training, or maybe it is just the way she is, who knows. When we first brought her home she was quite shy and submissive towards the other animals, but very focused on the cats. I spent a great deal of time socializing her, bonding with her, and during the first month I was up with her at the crack of dawn, playing with her, and just being with her for a couple of hours before anyone else in the house was up, including the cats. We had a routine- I would let her out about 5:30am or so, we would go outside together with her on her leash and do the potty thing, let her mess with the leash..then we would come in, go to her drawer and find a bone to chew and then lay on the couch and watch Big Valley(lol) for an hour. She was on my lap most of the time while she chewed on her bones. I did not worry about her getting on the furniture at this time because I knew that would come later- I just wanted her to love being with me and trust me with her toys and bones. By 7am, she was ready for her nap (she was only 11 weeks at this time) and the cats came out while she was sleepy- basically in her crate she went (which was in the family room) and out the cats came. When I eventually let her out, she was either tethered to me, or the cats went into a bedroom for a while so Jules could run about. When the cats were out, Jules was always under my control, always. It was like this for about 3 weeks, with gradual interaction under close supervision. I NEVER let her chase them, not once and if she tried, I was on top of it. Once or twice I grabbed her by the scruff of her neck and had to say "leave it" as she was in full throttle, but she got the message, and had been learning this command associated with other things as well. However, she knew from the get go that those cats were not to be harrassed. My cats became more trusting because of this, I think. Although our gray one may never like Jules- but as long as the cat feels he can stand his ground and not feel threatened, that might be as good as it gets between those two and I am ok with that.
The other issue I have now is Elk in the yard, and they can be extremely dangerous because they are not afraid of the dogs around here, in fact, they seem to enjoy tormenting the ones that bark and chase after them. A swift kick from an elk can and has killed dogs in this area. The elk even jump into fenced yards with german shepherds nipping at their heels-it can be quite scarey. Jules goes insane when she sees the elk, so I am using a pinch collar on her outside, and a long 20' rope attached, working her heavily on recall (with distractions at this point), and when I see elk roaming around we will go for a walk closer to them just so I can work with her on recall, and listening to me. It is much like working with the cats, or cars, or whatever your dog likes to chase. Only when it is something a little more life-threatening I want to have complete and total control and training tools that send a strong message. Being sensitive to what triggers prey drives or other natural instincts requires training to be flexible, given the circumstances you and your dog are in and what you are trying to teach. That is why these boards are so good- everyone has ideas to share and something new we can learn or try when other things fail.

[This message has been edited by jeminn (edited 11-05-2003).]

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posted 11-05-2003 08:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jeminn     Edit/Delete Message
nik- if your cats are not interested in coming out to investigate then don't push it. If they feel safe and content in their "room" with their food, water and litter box, then let them be. You can take your dog to them on a leash to the door, but I would not take your dog inside their room- let your cats have their own territory. I did this using either our laundry room, or one of my kids bedrooms- they have to have a safe haven from this intruder. It will take some time, and if your cats are not interested, then crate your dog and let your cats out- if your dog cries constantly, just leave the house for a while- letting your cats have free reign and your dog being safely kenneled. They will get used to each others noises and scents eventually. When you are home, take your dog on a leash to the cats room, but don't go in, just stand there at the door and pet your dog and you can say "easy" or "good kitties"...while keeping your dog calm, giving her some treats and petting her. Keep it short and sweet. Then shut the door and let the cats be, or kennel your dog and let the cats out- you may feel your whole life has become about shuffling these animals around, and it might be like this for a while, but it can and usually does all work out. Be patient and don't be afraid to give them their own space. They will find their place, given mutual respect, patience and time to adjust.

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Jamiya
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posted 11-05-2003 09:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamiya     Edit/Delete Message
I am still getting up with Nala at the crack of dawn so she can be out of her crate for a couple hours before we go to work.

I guess I got off to a bad start because she would chase the cats and was too fast for me to catch. I can't leave a leash on her because she chews on it, and nothing has worked with that, either.

Also, I was afraid to leave her crate in the family room while we are at work because I was worried she would hurt herself trying to get to the cats. The crate is too large to move from bedroom (where she sleeps at night) to the family room on a regular basis. I have considered getting an identical one for the family room. She has her car crate in there, but it is plastic so she can't see out as well.

I tether her to me when I let her come in the kitchen while I am working in there. She generally tries to chew on the leash then, too, because she wants to be free.

And now the cats are very wary of her and will hiss and swat even when she is being nice, which is not helpful at all.

My biggest hope right now is to get a reliable DOWN-STAY so I can down her when she is going to chase a cat. I have a feeling that will be a long time coming, though. I would really rather her just ignore them on her own.

Also, I can't put the cats in a bedroom because they all have mice or other little critters in them. The only place I could put them is the basement (which is finished and has their food and litter) but I didn't want them to get the message that now we have a dog, they have to be banished to the basement. They like to be in the same room with me. When I go out or go to bed, the cats never go in the family room and my husband doesn't have to deal with Nala chasing cats.

Nik, I know what you mean about second guessing yourself. Just hang in there. I felt horribly guilty when I got Nala because my cats were so unhappy. And it was even worse because I also felt guilty about getting a puppy at all after my other dog died, and I also had originally wanted a Golden Retriever and now instead I had this wild dog that was very stubborn and terrorizing my cats. I did just sit and cry sometimes.

We are working it out, though, and it can only get better. Hang in there!


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Maisey
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posted 11-05-2003 09:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Maisey     Edit/Delete Message
Nik, don't get discouraged, I don't buy into the "if you have cats, you can't have dogs" crud. I have two herding type dogs, an Aussie/Lab X thats almost three years old, and a Catahoula X puppy that will be a year old on the 21st of this month. Both of them chased my cats when they were puppies and I've been able to train them to stop. It takes time, patience and repetition. It is instinct for them to chase anything that moves fast. My cats now love all over the dogs, they do the pincushion thing on them even. On the occasion that they do start to chase, either my own cats or someone elses (outside)I recall them, tell them to "leave it" and they are put on a down stay. Witt, my puppy actually now knows the difference between a regular "down and stay" and "time out". They both mean the same thing as far as what he is to do, but with the latter he knows that he has done something naughty. You can see it on his face... the cringing "awww shucks mom, I'm sorry". It took time to teach these commands and get a consistent reaction, and they still slip up now and again but it can be done. The cats will adjust and maybe even become "dog wise" and stop running from the dog.

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posted 11-05-2003 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks everyone for your advice. It's so nice to hear possitive responses instead of all the negative one's I've been getting and the 'told you so's'.
I think you hit the nail on the head Jamiya saying about feeling guilty for making the cats so miserable. I feel so guilty I can barely look them in the face.
Big thanks to Maisey... what you said made me feel lots better and even more determind to make it work.

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posted 11-05-2003 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Maisey     Edit/Delete Message
Smiles Nik...ya got pictures of that BC Pup? I would love to see her. Did you research the breed and decided you wanted a BC or how did you come about getting her? Being involved in flyball I see ALOT of BC's and Aussies, they are incredible dogs, so much character, personality and smarts!
How did you come up with the name Floob?

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posted 11-05-2003 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuttifrutti     Edit/Delete Message
okay, I have the same problem with my brittany, he is 5 months. and he loves playing with my cat, it is just my cat doesn't like playing with him. When he tries to play with her, she attacks, and he gets even rougher thinking that she is now playing with him! My cat can't stand coming inside now, she comes in only to go out within the next 5 min. I love my kitty and don't want her to have to deal with this anymore!

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Nik
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posted 11-06-2003 06:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
Maisey - lol @ you asking about his name ... it's just something a person who I admire used to call his closest friends and I liked it hehe.
I don't have any pics of him yet but I'm going to take some at the weekend so I'll show him off then.
I've always liked the border collie breed, their energy and intelligence attracted me mostly, along with their resilliance (sp?). Ideally I'd have liked a b/c cross with something a little calmer as I don't have a garden, but I know he'll get more than enough excersise and stimulation so I'm not worried about that now. The second I saw him I knew he was 'the one' I'd been looking for for 3 months solid.

Titti - I feel for ya, really I do. My male cat, Albert, is doing the very same thing but it's really early days for me so I'm just hoping and preying I can resolve it before he decides to permenantly stay away I don't have any advice cause I think I'm a few steps behind you at this point. Sorry. Just keep at it.
From reading this board I feel that you have support, so if all else fails at least you can air it here which makes it somehow easier to live with the situation at home.
I hope that makes sense... it does to me anyways lol

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posted 11-12-2003 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuttifrutti     Edit/Delete Message
yea! I will try some of this stuff, I didn't have time to read through it all before! I know it took me a while to reply, but I couldn't find this thread again, and it just occured to me to do a search!

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posted 11-12-2003 08:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lucidity03     Edit/Delete Message
Nik... I truly feel for you. It's not easy at all.

I think all the advice offered here is great.

One good thing you did was get a pup. Older dogs are harder to raise with cats and have them think that cats are part of the pack.

A few months ago, my husband and I got a year old dog and we have four cats. My family said I was crazy and I was very angry at all the negativity aimed towards me.

Well... it turned out that our dog reacted horribly to the cats. In turn, the cats hated the dog. (He actually acted violently towards the cats... he didn't just play chase.) I think some of your situation will depend on your cats' and dog's personalities. Each animal is different.

It's a very long story but I'll try to shorten this for you... we ended up hiring an animal behaviorist to help us because we were desperate. Here's her advice after our consultation:

Put the food and litter in a room where they feel safe.

Give them high places to feel safe from the dog.

Raise the dog to think cats are great and they're not to chase. If the dog acts in a good way towards the cats, treat him and act like he's the best thing in the world.

Don't punish the dog if he acts badly towards the cats (just get his attention to get him to stop)... if you punish him, he will think that it's associated with the cats and he may end up disliking them.

Exercise the dog and get him exhausted before working on introductions. This can reduce his desire to chase the cats.

Give the kitties attention and let them think the dog is a good thing. Let them take their time.

I was very frustrated that people said to let the cats investigate the dog because my cats ended up under the bed for 23 hours a day (and the dog wasn't even allowed upstairs). There was no way they'd ever go up to his crate to investigate him. Two of my cats are 7 years old and are afraid of their own shadows.

The babygates worked for us.

But, here's the one bad thing that I pray doesn't happen for you. After hiring the behaviorist, we tried everything. (And believe me... I haven't seen so many tears shed out of frustration.) The behaviorist in the end said that the cats probably would never adjust and the dog just wouldn't learn to see the cats as anything but food. She told us it would probably never work out.

HOWEVER, the dog was a year old... had another owner and came with ALOT of baggage. There were so many problems with him and I think he had prior experiences with cats (not good ones.) It turned out that we had to find him a better home. He was suited for a totally different lifestlye than we can offer. That was the most heartbreaking experience in my life. I hope no one judges me that we had to give up the dog because no one was there to go through everything we dealt with. I never thought I'd have to get rid of an animal and it was horrible.

I just wanted to relate that I know what you're going through. BUT IT CAN WORK. I know countless people who made it work through persistance and patience. I really wish the best for you and your kitties and pup. I truly hope that all this advice works for you and that I offered some good advice.

(Sorry this was so long.)

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posted 11-13-2003 02:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kyles101     Edit/Delete Message
at least your cats run and hide when they see the pup. mine came running straight for mine when i got her and hissed and tried to attack her!! now my dog gets worried when it sees other cats! the cats should get used to it. a vet told me it takes at least 3 months for a cat to get used to a dog. now my cat lets the dog groom her head [only if shes in a good mood ]

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posted 11-13-2003 06:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamiya     Edit/Delete Message
The funniest thing happened the other day. One of our cats avoids the dog altogether. He waits for her to be outside or at least far away across the room before he jumps the gate and cuts through the corner of the "dog room" on his way downstairs to food and litter.

The other cat, Tesla, will stroll into the room and then freeze when she sees the dog and then just sit there and wail and carry on when she gets licked to death or chewed on. She's really not the sharpest tack in the box.

My husband had Nala at the park and she got really wet and smelly. She usually doesn't smell much at all. She was lying on the floor chewing on a bone when Tesla squeezed through the gate on her way dowstairs. Tesla froze and then started creeping (like that's going to work), but Nala was tired so she didn't get up to chase.

Then Tesla suddenly changed direction and creeped toward Nala. We watched, fascinated. As she got closer, she stuck her nose out and started sniffing. Eventually she was nose to nose with Nala - I wish I could have snapped a picture! She then proceeded to sniff Nala's nose and paws before Nala finally overloaded and chased her away.

It was hysterical! It's like Tesla was planning on just walking by when suddenly she smelled something odd....


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posted 11-13-2003 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
Lucidity - Your post had me in tears. The thought of things not working out so having to let Floob goto another home breaks my heart so I can feel some of what you must have gone through.
I joked about getting a therapist in if things hadn't settled after a while, but it seems people do have to go to those extremes. If I have to I will. I'm so sorry it didn't work for you but at least you have the comfort in that you tried your best and gave it a good shot without throwing the towel in at the first hurdle. Getting a year old dog with baggage shows how much you loved him and wanted to give him a good home.

I did put my cats food into the bedroom and within 4 days they were eating. Not great amounts, but at least they were having something. I left their litter out in the hallway in the hope that if they got really desperate they'd risk it. They haven't. They do crawl on their bellies to the door to be let out now tho and will walk past the stair gate if I'm there telling Floob to stop barking at them. They're back to sleeping ontop of the bed now too, which shows they're feeling more confident he can't get them there.
It feels like I'm getting somewhere at least and it's still early days

I'll give the advice on over praising him and making the cats feel like he's 'nice' to have around a go too. I'm already doing that in a way with all the reasuring I do when I'm holding them I guess but I'll make it more obvious.

Thank you again everyone

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I think that it just takes time for most dogs and cats to get used to one another. My dobie stays in the house alot but does go outside too. My cats are NOT crazy about her, but have learned to tolerate her. She sometimes tries to play with them but they want no part of it. My two outside dogs, one of which killed a stray little kitten right in front of my eyes several years ago while we were out for a walk and yes she was leashed, tolerate my cats that go outside and go into their yard. The cats even try to eat out of their bowls and the dogs just half-heartedly growl at them. In fact, my kitten killer dog, Prin, and Sally Ann (outside cat) are good friends now. Now my dogs hate to get in trouble by me and I did admonish them quickly anytime they showed any aggressive behavior toward the cats. But we still experienced scenarios in the beginning when the cats were in the dog's yard of them treeing the cats, chasing the cats, etc. but after a time everything turned out fine. I made sure my dogs observed (from a safe distance in the beginning) me playing with my cats and loving on them. To some people, this may seem to spur jealousy but I wanted my dogs to see that these were my animals and a part of the family. I am sure it is easier if you start out with a puppy or kitten but these were grown dogs who learned to adjust to cats and they did. As I said before it took time but everything turned out well. In fact, now if anyone is chasing anyone, it is Sally Ann chasing my big German Shepard mix dog, Prinnie.

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posted 01-03-2004 03:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
Wow, I was surprised to see this bought back up.
Things are still pretty much the same here. Still have the stair gate up, cats still in the bedroom and will not enter front room at any cost, dog still watching them pass, excitedly but not barking or growling at them.
I've kinda got used to it but have to remind myself how much I want us all to be 'together' so I keep working at it.

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hi
I am going through exactly the same thing my pup (bc x staff)Daxter. I also have two cats male and female. mia the female is the tough one an daxter pritty much leaves her alone. sonny the male cat is the problem because he is so laid back he keeps getting chased and jumped on I never know wether to tell daxter off when he does this or ignore it. on the whole they get on ok. when we first got daxter the cats didnt come out from under the bed for 3 days. But now we all sit in the same room in the evenings cats up high on the backs of the chairs and daxter in his bed. i look forward to the day when they all sleep together

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Still working on it here too, Nik. It is slightly better than it was. Sometimes Nala will ignore a cat - usually when she is tired, though. And the cats have learned better when it is "safe" to pass through the room.

I, too, want to be able to hold my cats with Nala in the room. She has allowed Tesla to be on the couch a couple of times, held by my son (convinced by me holding the end of the leash and not letting her jump on the cat). I tug gently on the leash and tell Nala to sit, speaking quietly and slowly. Now when she has the leash on, she usually knows she must sit down because she's not going to get to go anywhere anyway. Transitioning to off-leash is still a long way off. And there is no one to help her to sit when *I* want to hold a cat.

I am focusing my methods on teaching Nala self control, so that she can learn to obey in situations that she finds terribly exciting. It is a long process, just as it is with human children.

I have found the teachings of Suzanne Clothier to be very helpful, and I will probably do a phone consultation with her at some point. Here is her web site: http://www.flyingdogpress.com/. She has some free articles there. I also bought and read "Bones Would Rain from the Sky" and her 4-booklet behavior series.


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posted 01-13-2004 07:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
OMG! OMG! OMG!
I'm bursting here so I had to tell someone... lol
Todays been like one giant leap!
As I sit here I've got Floob lying at my feet (altho he's shuffling between there and infront of the fire) and my little Jipsi (female cat who wouldn't come out from under the bed or eat for a week when I got Floob) perched on the sofa arm behind me where she always used to lay

I moved the stair gate up a little a few days ago so the cats could get under n venture into the front room but Floob couldn't get under so they were safe to run back at any time. Only Jipsi dared to come in a couple of nights ago but ran straight back out when she saw Floob laying there.
BUT TODAY SHE'S IN!! WOOOOOOOOOOO
lol, sorry, I'm just so happy.
She's growling when he gets too close and she threw a couple of swipes but that was after a while when I rolled his ball for him so it was probably too excitable for her to keep it under control.
They're both asleep now but I want to jump up n down screaming.

I realise it's still really early days but for today it's just wonderful.

Jamiya - Thanks for that link, some of the stuff she says really makes sense. I'm reading "The Truth About Dogs" at the moment. It's not about training, but about how they see the world and manipulate us the way they do. It's very amusing and makes me shake my head and chuckle at how we do let them rule us even when we think we've trained them.
Good luck with training Nala in the self control thing. I hope to take Floobs traing further but like you said in another post... it isn't always fun and never easy so for now we'll stick to the basics.

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posted 01-13-2004 07:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamiya     Edit/Delete Message
That's great news, Nik!

It seems like Nala tends to lose it around the cats precisely when they start growling. As long as they are silent, she manages to quiver and behave. But as soon as they make a noise, she's all over them. Or when they move too fast. She likes movement.

She also is upset when I feed them. Apparently she is the only critter in the house who deserves to eat.

I consider the self-control issue to be the most basic issue in training her. When she learns it, all the rest of the commands will be so much easier. It is the basis for EVERYTHING else she needs to learn.

I am trying to shift my work schedule so I can get off 15 minutes early so I have time to swing by the house on my way to pick up the kids and get Nala. It will be chaos at the beginning, but I am going to attempt to teach her to stay in control in the school parking lot with all the children running all over the place.

It would be easier to do from a distance, but I can't take her to the neighborhood school and watch the kids from across the street because they let out 10 minutes before my kids' school does. So we are just going to wade right in and give it a try.

Prong collar or Gentle Leader....that is the question.


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posted 01-13-2004 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nik     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you
I think wading right in and giving it a try is exactly the way to go. Plunging her into situations where she isn't the one in control may just be what she needs. Of course it could be a total nightmare and she runs riot, but next time she'll remember some of the correcting from this time and so on... theory's a wonderful thing isn't it? lol.
Calling her a critter made me giggle, I call Floob a little monster all the time... he wags his tail at it now.

I'd never heard of a prong collar till I came to this site, not even sure if we can buy them here, so I'm no help there I'm afraid. Whichever you choose, good luck.
I'd put her in a sit/down stay then stand on her leash so I had both hands free. Do you use treats still? Floob jumps up EVERYONE & EVERYTHING nomatter how hard I try to keep him down. His trainer taught me about offering him treats as people pass and in busy situations as his attention stays on me then... well that's the theory. It works 80% of the time I'd say. (I know you've probably tried this but it's worth a go if you haven't)

Good luck with the school run

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posted 01-13-2004 07:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamiya     Edit/Delete Message
I forgot to mention that I have "The Truth About Dogs" checked out and waiting in the wings. I am reading "The Other End of the Leash" right now.

My trainer told me to not use treats anymore for obedience, and to only use them for training tricks. She's also the one who showed me how to use the prong collar. But I also disagree with some of her methods based on what I have read of Suzanne Clothier's methods. I am pretty much muddling through my own way at this point, integrating things that make sense to me and Nala.

Treats are a good idea, but no matter how food oriented Nala is, other people and dogs override it in her. I used to try to use treats to get her to walk next to me when out for a walk, but she could never even see them in my hand, even if I waved it in front of her nose.

I am going to do what I do with the cats and what I did at agility last night. I tell her to sit, and tug on the leash gently to remind her, and tap her back end if that isn't getting through. I put her back every time she leaps up, until I release her with "Okay."

I know how it will go this afternoon. She won't even be able to hear me. She will leap around like a salmon on the end of a fishing line. I will physically put her in a sit and she will quiver and jump all over and nip at my hands. But I will be persistent and day by day she will improve a few seconds at a time.

For today, I will stop at the far end of the crosswalk and let the kids come to me. I should be late enough by the time I get there that some of the chaos will have cleared out. As Nala gets better, I will bring her right into the middle of the kids, who will all be clamoring around asking to pet her. Once she learns this lesson, she will be awesome.

As Maisey said, "Patience, Persistence and consistency."


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