posted 12-09-2003 02:00 PM         

Besides my cat, I've always noticed another.. she/he's a stray. She larger than my cat and has different eyes, thats how i can tell them apart from each other from far away. Anyways, she wouldn't let me near her at all, i've tried practically EVERYTHING. I think she was abused because she get so scared when im like 5-10 feet away. She eats some of my kitty's food but I'm ok with that cause i have plenty, and even though i don't know this cat, I don't want her to die. Anyways, yesterday I discovered another stray. Orange and pretty big. She will get scared when i am like 3, or 4 feet away from her, then she runs. I've tried everything with her too. She also eats the food. I wouldn't mind if i knew the cat and she trusted me, but it seems as if im the kat kid and they all come to me for food. I want them to trust me, I don't mind giving food, but i want to know the cats. Any suggestions?
P.s. they see me petting and loving my kitty, why don't they trust me?