posted 10-14-2003 08:11 AM         

It sounds like your pup just needs some training, positive reenforcement and confidence building. I would suggest starting her in a puppy class if you haven't already. Being in an environment with strangers and other dogs will expose her to much needed socialization. Plus, your puppy trainer can help you get her comfortable gradually.

Shelties are very intelligent dogs, and doing well at something (their 'job,' whether it be herding your kids or taking an agility class) will bring up her confidence and can completely change even the most timid sheltie's personality.

Some people suggest starting really, really slowly with a puppy like this. Let her come to you rather than you go to her - I know this is hard when you are potty training. Maybe you could offer her a treat (something super yummy that she can't resist - like a small piece of cheese or chicken) and then gently pick her up & take her outside every 3 hours so she can go potty. When she does go potty outside, give her lots of praise & love & maybe another treat. Soon, she'll associate going potty outside = treat = big fun. Because shelties are so smart, potty training goes much faster than with some other breeds (my sheltie figured it out within a week & a half). If you try to chase her to take her out, she'll only get more frightened. Shelties are sensitive and don't respond well to scolding or punishments well at all. But they are typically very food motivated and have a natural desire to please that you can use to your benefit.

As far as her hiding from you, rather than looking directly at her (which can be intimidating), I would sit on the floor so you're at her level, not look right at her, but maybe hold a toy that she likes and a yummy treat (again, if she's really shy, it'll have to be something irresistable). When she comes to you, praise her & give her lots of love.

With a little time & patience, your little girl will become comfortable and learn that you aren't going to hurt her and that she'll get lots of love from you - then she'll be a wonderful & devoted companion!