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6foot3
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posted 09-11-2003 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 6foot3     Edit/Delete Message
I have a 12 week old Lab puppy. Tomorrow will be the first day he is to be left alone for 4 hours. I have two choices of where to leave him. The kitchen, or my yard which is small but it is enough for him to run around, and play. He is at the point where he has to be my side at all times. I cannot walk to the kitchen without him following. I have tried to leave him in the yard for a while, while I am home, then I leave sight from the yard so he cannot see me, and all he does is cry. I can only handle this for a 5 minutes then I return. Same thing with the kitchen. At least, when he is in the kitchen he cannot bother all my nieghbors with his crying. Will he stop crying after a bit? I only work a few blocks from my home and I come home everyday at lunch. 4 hours is the max I plan on leaving him home alone at a time.

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Jamiya
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posted 09-11-2003 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamiya   Click Here to Email Jamiya     Edit/Delete Message
You might want to invest in a crate if you can afford one. It's best to get one that will fit the adult dog, and use a divider to make it smaller for the puppy. They are fairly expensive, so a small one might do for now if you can't afford a big one.

We have been lucky in that our puppy doesn't complain too much about the crate. She doesn't want to go in, but at night she settles right down after licking my fingers through the bars (as I lie in bed).

She goes back in during the day while we are at work (my husband puts her in because I hate doing it). She knows the routine and is fine.

The last couple of days we have put her in for about 30 mins during dinner so we can eat in peace. She yips for a minute or two and then quiets down.

Whatever you do, do NOT let your puppy out if he is crying. That only teaches him to cry more when he wants out. It is hard to do, but necessary.

Good luck to you!

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Brent
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posted 09-11-2003 10:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brent   Click Here to Email Brent     Edit/Delete Message
Crate training rocks!

Your pup should have no problem being crated for four hours at a time. My 14 week old lab has been crated at night since he was five weeks old and loves the thing. Now that the weather is turning sour here in Seattle he's beginning to spend a bit more time in the house. When I can't physically watch him, he's in the kennel. He can't hurt himself in there, can't chew our stuff, and he never gets in trouble when he's kenneled. He soiled the kennel on the first night I put him in (6.5 hours), and has not had one accident in there since. In all, I have had a total of three accidents in the house. Each time it was my fault, I wasn't watching him close enough.

Last time I was at Petsmart they had the large "Bargain Hound" kennel for $49.99. This is admittedly a lower end crate but it works great for applications where it won't be moved around too much. It is approved for air travel, but in looking at the construction, I don't think it would survive too many airline handlings.

For home use and the occasional trip the "Bargain Hound" would probably last his lifetime.

Good luck!

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posted 09-11-2003 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NewLabOwnr     Edit/Delete Message
6foot3 - Hello and welcome to the boards, you'll find a lot of good threads here to help, a good one started a couple days ago about puppies!

Well anyway my $0.02 for what its worth: We started out by gating off a tiled area of our family room. We did have a crate that we left in the corner propped open with a bungee cord. We made Max's crate very comfortable with a big comfy blanket in it. We kept this situation until Max was 14 weeks - 15 weeks old. It was my understanding that puppies can't hold their bladder for longer than they are months old.. 1 month - 1 hr, 2 months - 2 hrs... so we didn't want Max to be in his crate for 4 hrs until we were sure he could physically hold it this long. We didn't want to "force" him to eliminate in the crate and get used to doing so. He did have accidents nearly everday on the tiled floor but we just cleaned them up with a odor neutralizer. During the month or two the crate was always left opened and his "safe" spot was the entire gated area. He learned to get adjusted to the crate and would start going in there to sleep more often just on his own.
That said I won't lie and say Max didn't bark. We left him the first time to go outside and mow the lawn and he barked the entire time. We would make quick trips out to get the mail or out to dinner. But realistically we got him on a Friday so he would have the whole weekend with us before we left him. But come Monday we had to go to work and leave him for four hours. He barked and whined when we left but according to our neighbors and me sneaking up on the house he was sound asleep or quietly laying there everytime we got back. Now Max is at the point that if we are home and he knows it he certainly cries and barks to be with us(well we are almost ALWAYS with him so no biggie here). But we rarely hear a bark or whine we leave the house in the morning. We bought one of the infamous kongs and we just put it in the crate and he goes in and lays down. He's now 16 weeks old and never any accidents in the crate.
I'm always so long - winded =). I feel pretty sure that your puppy will calm down as long as you give him a toy or two to occupy him. If you can/want to ask neighbors to listen for his barking just to put your mind at ease. And I would think that your kitchen would be the best bet for him at this point. I was against the whole crate thing, but they certainly are as good as everyone says. Get one now and start getting your puppy used to it. In a month or so you can just use that and it will help with house training too.

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6foot3
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posted 09-11-2003 11:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 6foot3     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks everyone for the replies! I have a crate, and heve put him in it a few times but never more than 15-20 minutes. I picked him up from the breeder last week, and he has only urinated in the house 3 times, and those we my fault as well. I have been training him to urinate on command, and it is working better than I expected. After going outside we get to his grassy spot, and I tell him "go pee" and within a few seconds he is peeing.

I am trying the crate now. I just put him in it with a few chew toys, and already he is crying. It is hard to listen to! I am trying to ignore him so he realizes that crying will not help. I will try this for 15 minutes now, then I will play with him, then try it again for 30 minutes later today, and keep up this routine for a couple of days. Also at night he sleeps in our room on his bed, and does very well. He has not eliminated in our room at all. Should I get him used to sleeping in his crate at night in our room? The problem I see with this is I will have to move his crate from the living room to the bedroom every night. Sorry if this post is long!!! I have just a couple more questions though. I want him to be a family dog, so I dont want him to spend all the time while we are home in his crate. This is my fear.

Thanks again for all the help.

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posted 09-11-2003 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NewLabOwnr     Edit/Delete Message
I had the same thought about the crate. I wanted the crate to be in the family room because that is where we spend most of our time, but would be an absolute pain to drag it upstairs for bed every night. So Max just sleeps on his dog bed and he too has never had any accidents in there. Plus to this: My room has never been so clean because anything left on the floor he eats so as long as you keep everything dangerous out of reach I don't see why he has to be crated at night.

ALSO like Jamiya said important point Don't let your puppy out while he is crying even if it's only a few seconds of silence let him out then.

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honeybear
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posted 09-11-2003 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for honeybear     Edit/Delete Message
newlabowner, I had to laugh about your comment "my house has never been so clean" I have a 6 1/2 year old lab that weve had since he was 12 weeks. My husband said I would have gotten a dog a long time ago since that what got me to to get me to pick up things off the floor. (now I am bakc to my old habits)

sorry I cant give advice since we were so poor on our training, we tried crating and just cried - my husband felt so bad and put him on our bed and that is where he sleeps to this, muc to my chagrin.

We also had problems with him crying when we were not home - this wnet on for a few years before we got a new neighbor that complained. I checkd with other neighbors and sure enough, but they were to afraid to say anything - We did not know this, he was able to go in the the garage and oustide. So we finally resorted to puttiing a dog door in the house which solved the problem.

there is such wonderful advice here wish I had it when Jake was a pup
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Jamiya
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posted 09-11-2003 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamiya   Click Here to Email Jamiya     Edit/Delete Message
Be careful of your 15 minutes and then 30 minutes idea. If he is crying, do NOT let him out. I have a hard time with this, too, but if you wait 15 mins and then let him out and the next time you wait 30 mins and let him out, all you are doing is teaching him to cry LONGER to get what he wants!

Our puppy is terribly stubborn, but the crate at night is the only thing she adjusted to right away and we have no problems with.

They say if you leave the crate out, they will eventually start going in there to sleep on their own. I guess it must be true because people say their dogs do it, but I just can't fathom it!

Right now, we have the crate in our bedroom so she can sleep in our room at night. I am seriously considering buying another for the family room so we can at least try to get her to use it for a regular bed (even with the door open). It is much too hard to move from room to room.

I have read you are supposed to stick them in there and quietly shut the door when they fall asleep on the floor during the day, but I have never had the heart to do it. She is in the crate at night (usually only 4-6 hours, though) and then for 4 hours in the morning and another 3-4 in the afternoon until I get home from work. Once I am home, I hate the thought of putting her back in.

To my surprise, she did just fine when we put her in during dinner the other night, even though we were all still home and she could hear us. I felt bad that she was alone in the bedroom, but after 1-2 minutes of yipping she quieted down and when I went in to get her she was just lying there chewing on her toys.

The other problem with leaving the crate in the family room is that she likes to pull her bed out and start to shred it. I want to avoid that and it gets very old, very fast trying to make her stop (on top of all the other things we are trying to make her stop doing)!


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posted 09-11-2003 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jeminn   Click Here to Email jeminn     Edit/Delete Message
I too, am a strong advocate of crate training. And four hours is a reasonable amount of time for your dog to be left alone in a crate at this age. For one, crate training gives the dog a sense of security as long as it used properly. More importantly, it keeps them out of trouble. You may have some crying and whining in the beginning, but it is worth trying. Most dogs can learn to settle themselves down when they are alone in their crate. Do you have a Kong you can fill with something special for your dog to look forward to having in his crate? My friend stuffs hers dogs Kong with wet food and puts it in the freezer. Her dog runs to her kennel when she gets the Kong out of the freezer and looks forward to having that quiet time to work on it. She was an abused recused dog from the shelter with all kinds of separation anxieties and her vet recommended trying that. It really works well for her. It gives her something to do for quite a while when there is a frozen treat in there. You can buy Kongs at PetsMart. It might temper your dogs whining a little if he has something really good to look forward to in his crate. There is plenty of good advice here. Everyone on these boards has such a good ideas, a great attitude and love for their dogs- it is an awesome place to get information and support. Good luck-

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Maisey
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posted 09-11-2003 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Maisey   Click Here to Email Maisey     Edit/Delete Message
My husband was the worst when it came to crate training...he just couldn't stand it, one lil' whimper and he was whining. I not only had to listen to the pup whine, but my husband too! Both of my dogs know that they will not be let out of the crate until they are quiet and sitting, it took a week or so for them to catch onto that idea, but they did and it's great.
I wanted to mention to the person who said they crated their dog during dinner so they could have some peace.... your dog will never learn to be polite at mealtimes if he is not taught to do so. This may not seem like such a big thing until you are having a BBQ or out somewhere else with your dog, and the kennel isn't available. Our dogs have been taught "no beg" they know that we eat first, they eat second. They also know they will not get anything off anyones plate until we are all done and only if they were not begging. They wag tails when they hear one of my children ask to be excused from the table, cause they know it's almost treat time lol.
6foot3, stick to your guns, wear earplugs if you must, but leave the pup in the crate for a while and do not take him out ever if he is whining or barking. it's a good thing for him to be crate trained, it also is best to leave him crated when he will be alone, he is safe this way. You would be amazed what harm can come to puppies left alone in a seemingly safe area. Smiles and good luck wiht the lil' guy.

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Jamiya
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posted 09-12-2003 07:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jamiya   Click Here to Email Jamiya     Edit/Delete Message
We will work on dinner manners, but not right now. She will NEVER get table scraps, no matter what. But she is not even allowed in the kitchen at this point - she has one room in the house that is gated off. While we eat, she hurls herself at the gate. If we DO let her in, she ends up chasing the cats or getting into other mischief exploring the rest of the house. And she is too far away from the door that reminds her she needs to go outside to pee.

Some days she just lies down at the gate and chews on her toys and waits for us to finish. Other days, she does not. I usually just ignore her, but my husband needed the peace and quiet for dinner that night. Letting the caregivers rejuvenate is very important or tempers will get short and everyone suffers.

Her meals are not associated with ours in any way. I have heard the thing about eating first and then feeding the dog, and I have also heard to NOT do that. I feed her at 6am, noon, and 5pm. Our meals are not that scheduled. We eat whenever we eat. I am starting to feed the cats before her, though, so maybe she will get the idea that they are above her in rank - I doubt it, though.

This solution is not forever. I just can't work on everything all at once. Just like with a child, you have to prioritize and pick your battles.


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