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honeybear Member Posts: 152 |
posted 08-08-2003 01:09 PM
Is Your Dog Fulfilled? Herding classes, obedience school, play dates, day care—pretty soon you'll be taking your dog to ballet lessons. By Jon Katz Posted Friday, August 8, 2003, at 5:33 AM PT
"I do agility, obedience, and therapy dog training," the owner of a Lab/shepherd mix told me, "and I'd love to add herding. We have Thursdays and Fridays open." Dog fulfillment feels like an inevitable movement. One of the baby boom's many dubious ideas was the Gifted and Talented Child. In the 1970s and '80s, schools created programs based on the same principle as dog fulfillment: We had to figure out what our kids could excel at and make sure they got vast encouragement to do it. Nervous principals and anxious parents made sure that every child was defined as gifted and talented at something. This has gradually led to families where too much is never enough: Every waking hour must be spent at some class or team or camp. As Americans who love their dogs have increasingly emotionalized them and come to see them as family members, complete with complex psychological lives and histories, they feel more and more anxious and guilty about them. It follows that dogs, too, should have every chance at fulfillment. And it also follows that dog owners should come to feel as if they are never doing enough. "Is it OK to have a dog and still go to work?" one woman e-mailed me recently. Dog owners vigorously search for activities that will endlessly stimulate and amuse their pets. Dogs belong to recreational and sporting associations, sometimes organized by activity (obedience, therapy, search and rescue) and other times by breed. Dogs have play dates or walking dates. They participate in agility, tracking, and myriad other sporting events. They are acquiring service and therapy certificates by the thousands. Dog day-care centers have sprouted everywhere so guilt-ridden owners can go to work feeling good that Max or Maggie (our dogs often have human names now, too) has sufficient exercise, stimulation, and companionship. And have you checked out the toy department at your pet store recently? It's like Zany Brainy in there. A generation or two ago—in fact, for most of the species' evolutionary history—the idea that a dog needed to be fulfilled would have shocked even the most attentive owner. As recently as the '60s and '70s, dogs were rarely even leashed or confined; they generally were content just to hang around, occasionally squabbling with other dogs, getting into the garbage or menacing the mailman. Today's dog owners might pause and consider that their pets may sometimes actually need much less from them than they want or feel they need to give. Most dogs require an hour of exercise a day, not endless fetching and chasing or romps with scores of excited peers. (A dog that chases balls, sticks, and Frisbees and races around all day is sometimes an obnoxious, aroused, or hyper dog, not necessarily a fulfilled one.) They certainly need love and attention, but not always as much of it as we think. They need food and things to chew on, but not as much as we usually provide. A trainer friend told me I wasn't helping my anxious border collie out by rushing him around to stimulating activities all day. "He needs to be socialized with dogs and people, but he also needs to learn how to be calm just as much as he needs to work. I see dog people smiling all the time when they see their dogs racing around in packs like maniacs, but they aren't always doing their dogs a favor. Dogs don't have 'fun' in the way that humans do, and people often confuse excitement and arousal for yuks." In natural environments, which almost no dog or owner can find anymore, dogs are like lions. They lie around much of the day, rousing themselves every now and then for food or sex or to chase after something appealing. Dogs don't have human emotions. They don't get bored in the human sense of the word, although they do need some activity. They may get anxious when left alone—they are pack animals and usually prefer company—but loneliness is a human, not canine, emotion. With proper training and acclimatization, sometimes confinement, almost any dog can spend time alone, vegging out, smelling the smells and listening to the sounds of the world, chewing on rawhide, or staring at nothing in particular. One European study suggests that dogs left alone sometimes are smarter than dogs that are smothered by attention: They get the opportunity to solve problems by themselves. Working with dogs and engaging in activities like agility, obedience, and herding is great, terrific for people and dogs alike. Nobody should feel badly about doing this stuff. I've spent some of the loveliest hours of my life out in pastures with my vigilant dogs, listening to the sound of sheep crunching away on grass. But it's sometimes OK to relax and let our dogs just be dogs. After considerable badgering by some great trainers, I now make sure my dogs spend several hours a day alone in the yard or quietly in their crates, learning to settle down. We have spent some of our happiest times together doing nothing. IP: Logged |
dogangel Member Posts: 47 |
posted 08-08-2003 03:34 PM
Very good point, honeybear!! I guess we are getting paranoid about our little babies, but then again they give us so much, and we just want to make up for it... IP: Logged |
jeminn Member Posts: 52 |
posted 08-08-2003 07:28 PM
I have an Austrailian Shepherd pup, 4 months old. I would like to know if anyone knows how to find places like the "herding farm" you mentioned earlier, anywhere near Denver, or how to find out where to watch these herding breeds at trials. thanks IP: Logged |
1Dog3Cats Member Posts: 52 |
posted 08-09-2003 10:42 AM
I asked my beloved Sheltie "Is your life filled with love, joy, and are you content?" I received a giant smile and a 100 MPH wag of her tail :=) My beloved Sheltie has 3 cats that she loves to herd, play chase me slap me with, loves to snuggle with, and one cat who is her personal soft fuzzy chew toy that plays back!! My beloved Sheltie is giving obedience commands every week and she can't wait to learn more!! My beloved Sheltie enjoys a daily 1.5-3 mile walk, parents who adore her, a Grommer who worships her, a Vet who tells her she is the best client ever, grandparents who fix up their place like a Canine Camp for her each time she comes, daily play sessions, weekly visits to the dog park when it's not too hot, and monthly meet other dog sessions. Here is more information on Herding Trial for the owner of the 4 month old Aussie... http://www.canismajor.com/dog/herdtrl.html Here is more information on Herding Schools for the owner of the 4 month old Aussie... http://www.dog-training.com/trainers.htm You might want to check out the Assue Club of America for more information as well. http://www.asca.org/ ------------------ IP: Logged |
lucidity03 Member Posts: 71 |
posted 08-09-2003 11:23 AM
What a great article. I feel guilty when my dog is on the floor sleeping at my feet (and he seems more than happy to be doing it). Ever since we got him, our lives changed dramatically to accomidate the dog. I guess there should be a compromise. The one sad thing I find about where I live is that dogs are only accepted in the pet stores. We have one dog park I can take my pup to (and that's a 40 minute drive). So, I feel like I'm at a loss when I want to be out and active and can't take the dog with me. We have the option of the dog park or a walk. I would love some local activities that incorporate dogs and dog owners. Since my husband and I both work full time, I make sure the dog's fully stimulated every moment I'm home. It's exhausting at times and can be frustrating to turn down going out because I don't want to crate my dog any more than I do. So, I would love to see more activities available for my dog in Pittsburgh so that he and I could have fun and enjoy. (I guess I went off topic, oops!) IP: Logged |
jeminn Member Posts: 52 |
posted 08-09-2003 07:17 PM
Thank you for the suggested websites on Aussies. I found them to be very helpful! jeminn IP: Logged |
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