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Christine New Member Posts: 4 |
posted 03-24-2003 01:20 PM
I am looking for advice to help my 2nd pomeranian (10 month old male) who might have been abused. He was a rescue and gets along beautifully with my 1st pomeranian but will not come near me. I've had him for 2 weeks and at first he would run into his crate if I came within 10 feet of him. Now he has been showing signs of getting more comfortable like coming within arm's length of me and watching everything I do. He also follows me from room to room but whenever I hold out my hand or start to approach him, he runs away. He does approach me in bed in the morning(licks my face and tries to engage in play but as soon as I move slowly towards him or move my hand near him, he runs away) or when I come out of the shower (he licks the back of my leg) It breaks my heart because I want him to have a happy life and I can't even come near him to put a harness on to bring him out for a walk! Any advice would be appreciated! Thank you! IP: Logged |
shmoopie Member Posts: 361 |
posted 03-24-2003 03:36 PM
Oh poor lil guy, he's scared. I suggest you get down on your hands and nees with treats in your hand. You don't want to be dominant with this guy and your actions by moving towards him and going after him are dominant moves. Also, I would suggest NEVER petting him ontop of his head, you will always want to pet under the chin and on chest..NEVER ontop of the head (this is rude in doggie language and also domianant). Also, push your shoulders back and be as submissive as possible. It will take time for this lil guy to gain trust as obviously his experiences with humans were fearful...this takes time, but will work if you are consistent. Good luck and let me know if that helps at all. Cheers IP: Logged |
Pauline Member Posts: 119 |
posted 03-25-2003 09:22 AM
I would say that 2 weeks of ownership, and this dog getting comfortable with you a little at a time, seems right nice. I wouldn't rush it, it has only been 2 weeks after all. Good things come to those who wait. Like the above person, I agree, treats and all. He may be left with timidity to some degree, always, just let him always approach you first, his trust has been damaged, and this poor fellow, has been trying. God bless. IP: Logged |
Christine New Member Posts: 4 |
posted 03-28-2003 09:27 AM
Thank you for your replies! He is getting more and more comfortable each day! I can scratch his back/belly while in bed but it still scares the little one when I am sitting or standing. It will take time and patience but I am so proud of how far he has come in almost 3 weeks now! I can't wait until he can feel the joy of walking outside with my other pom! Thanks again for your advice, it's nice to know that there are such caring people out there! IP: Logged |
Chris unregistered |
posted 04-16-2003 01:27 PM
Don't let this worry you too much. I have three female Chihuahuas. Each of them are very different in personality. One of them is, and has always been very skiddish in nature. These girls are nothing but pampered and spoiled. They have never been spanked or hit, rarely scolded (and mildly at that). The skiddish one, Pockets, is just that way. She feels most comfy when she's under the covers. That's on the couch, in the bed, under the bed, etc. She's been that way from day one. She is very playful when the environment is right. She always gets scared when we are inside the house and walking around. She doesn't exibit this fear outside for some reason. She is very loving and affectionate (as are the other two). One of the other two, Little Bit, after we adopted her at 9 weeks old didn't want much to do with us. She loved the other two girls, but not my wife and not me. She was just wary of us. For the first few months we had her, she could sort of care less if we were around or not. Then she got to a point where it was 50/50. Now she is so far up our ass (sorry about that term) that it gets annoying. So just give your new baby some time, he'll come around. IP: Logged |
trueleeblessed2003 unregistered |
posted 04-26-2003 01:58 AM
My 10 month old Chihuahua comes up to us for hugs and kisses but when we get up or my 10 year old daughter comes at him to play he runs. He kinda cowers under you when you walk. But he's so funny because if he hears a noise he barks like the is the BIG DAWG! But he just walks and cowers under us but follows us everywhere in the house. He loves to play but when were riding in the car he shakes like a leaf, i wonder why? IP: Logged |
Doc Helladay unregistered |
posted 04-26-2003 04:06 AM
Hi Christine, welcome to the board. Sounds to me that he probably has spent his life in a crate, and chances are since he was a rescue he probably was not handled much or never and he only saw human life twice a day to be fed and watered. Alot of these puppymills that have toys they stack em high its disqusting. I feel with patience on your part he will eventually realize that being a pet is great. Let him seek you out, follow etc..you spoke of he licks back of your leg from the shower..an idea for you, come down to his level, like lying on the floor with a pillow and a glass of water...dab some of the water on your arm..then as days go on then have a treat with you on the floor, take steps then go to a sitting position, etc...he will realize that he can trust you. As it gets better maybe start moving his crate from room to room that way he has to look for it when he feels unsafe and you never know that might be the time that he runs to you Just be creative it will work. And with him getting along with your other dog, right there shows that he is trying to associate. Well good luck and keep us informed how each day progresses. Doc~2003 P.S. I am sure glad people like you offer homes to rescue abused dogs.. IP: Logged |
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