Can't we all just get along?

rushy373 · Posted: Sat Jun 24, 2006 11:59 pm Post subject: Can't we all just get along?

I have 2 male nuetured cats and I moved a female cat into my house and had her spayed as well. I have had since November 2005 and she has yet to get along with my boys. I feel so bad for her as she stays in my daughter's bedroom and doesn't come out. How do I get the boys from being such jerks. Rolling Eyes

Mary_NH · Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 12:01 am Post subject:

you could put Feliway diffusers about your house. It has pheromones that help cats to relax. See how they do with that and then start to eliminate them when the cats seem happier with each other.
Are the 2 males brothers? Perhaps have a close relationship with each other

rushy373 · Posted: Sun Jun 25, 2006 6:21 am Post subject: Can't we all just get along?

where would I find those? No they are not brothers they have a 3 year age difference-but another one of my cats disappeared and both of them are having difficulties as well as my daughter and I Sad

Thank you for the advice

Chessmind · Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2006 3:43 am Post subject:

Hi and welcome to Auspet. You can get it online or in pet supply shops. You can always call ahead and see if they have any on stock. I hope they can all soon be the best of buds. If not there are other tricks you can try and we are here to help. Very Happy

Chezza · Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2006 8:12 am Post subject:

Maybe try and play with them all together, something really fun to help them interact, the boys have obviously got a bond and a new presence will always be uncomfortable, especially when they establish a pecking order..

Patience is the key, I'm sure they will all be ok... Your the best

rushy373 · Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2006 11:44 pm Post subject: Can't we all just get along?

Thank you everybody for the great advice and now I have a new dilemma-our cat who had been missing finall showed up Surprised

-now there is more fighting